tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19397583.post3342262304377103458..comments2023-12-25T13:26:00.772+01:00Comments on Sunny Side Up in an Upside Down World: Over the edge...over againHollyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16676530868449226811noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19397583.post-42182500617547004502012-07-19T15:50:27.685+02:002012-07-19T15:50:27.685+02:00Why would you be angry that a woman chooses life a...Why would you be angry that a woman chooses life and to keep HER baby? Angry about being infertile yes but angry at a Mother WANTING her baby? That I dont understand. Yes adoption is HARD!!! Imagine how you felt after your miscarriages and multiply that about a thousand times...because a CHILD is actually born then taken away. It is hard for everyone....yes even adoptees...but no one talks about the consequences to them.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19397583.post-27304978963699491582011-04-19T08:25:20.658+02:002011-04-19T08:25:20.658+02:00This is one issue that I will just have to take up...This is one issue that I will just have to take up with Heavenly Father personally one day. Why, oh why do babies go to unfit, selfish mothers and good, good people go through this. I am in tears for you. Prayers from the bottom of my heart.Janiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08455764039212519400noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19397583.post-19543771625629799682011-04-19T00:16:01.977+02:002011-04-19T00:16:01.977+02:00breaks my heart. I'm so very sorry!!! :(breaks my heart. I'm so very sorry!!! :(Breehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05914127090127327763noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19397583.post-12318423300028932102011-04-15T22:59:54.384+02:002011-04-15T22:59:54.384+02:00My heart is heavy for you. I just want to make th...My heart is heavy for you. I just want to make this all work out for you.Me, Myself and Ihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06164372159942725088noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19397583.post-4454134586928987772011-04-15T18:03:47.716+02:002011-04-15T18:03:47.716+02:00I'm so sorry... my heart aches for you guys.I'm so sorry... my heart aches for you guys.Courtneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12525050510491259984noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19397583.post-14714057421706541412011-04-15T04:11:01.862+02:002011-04-15T04:11:01.862+02:00I'm so sorry Holly & Nate. Nobody should ...I'm so sorry Holly & Nate. Nobody should ever have to go through this. You must be exhausted on so many levels. I'm so sorry.Vhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11503246998637206824noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19397583.post-71874199337985751402011-04-14T21:55:12.927+02:002011-04-14T21:55:12.927+02:00*hug**hug*Sterling Bohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12867789978566730202noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19397583.post-35086563208972817722011-04-14T07:44:34.481+02:002011-04-14T07:44:34.481+02:00Sometimes adoption really sucks, and I just really...Sometimes adoption really sucks, and I just really don't know why you have had the incredibly rough road you have. There are truly no words. Love you girl. Wish there was more I could do....Amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09161263962904624986noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19397583.post-72290828379140691702011-04-14T04:38:08.347+02:002011-04-14T04:38:08.347+02:00Oh Holly, I was really hoping that this would be a...Oh Holly, I was really hoping that this would be a different story. I can't stop crying. You are SOOO strong. I want to be like you. Give your husband an extra big hug. He sounds wonderful. Really ALL my love.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04331538096925365494noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19397583.post-61287304886246505172011-04-14T04:29:47.930+02:002011-04-14T04:29:47.930+02:00I just went through a whole thing on telling you m...I just went through a whole thing on telling you my feelings and when I went to enter it, it told me it couldn't. UGH! Then I lost it all.<br /> Just in a nutshell I want you to know that you two have been in my thoughts and prayers since you left RI and when you annouced that you started looking into adopting. I told Mike about a year ago, how I felt that no better couple deserved a baby as much as you two. And I hoped an prayed you would get one rapidly b/c Heavenly Father knew how wonderful you would be also. Then everytime you told us that it fell through my heart would break more for you.<br /> And I'm sure that this had to be the worst. I'm so very sorry, Holly and Nate. My heart just breaks for you. I pray that Father in Heaven will continue to wrap His arms around you and comfort you and hold you, until you are strong enough to stand on your own. Bless you in the knowledge to know that your prayers will be answered. I'm told alot that it's "In His time" and we all know that HIS time is totally different then ours. And we need to have patience and be faithful in knowing. But, that, I know is hard. I pray for you to give it ALL to Him, leave it at His feet and let Him carry you through. Have faith in knowing, when the time is right. I pray this prayer in Jesus' name.. AMEN...<br /> Love ChristinaChristinaShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10888640726480956190noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19397583.post-41676228142791334842011-04-14T03:53:15.041+02:002011-04-14T03:53:15.041+02:00I wish you didn't have to write this post... s...I wish you didn't have to write this post... scratch that. I wish you had to write it, but with a different outcome. My heart aches every time I hear that the adoption is a no go. This is not fair. I believe things happen for a reason, but whatever the reason for your situation is, it needs to appear NOW. You and Nate are deserving of more than this, you deserve to be treated in a way that brings you tears of JOY, not sadness. <br /><br />I continue to hope that through all the rough and horrible times, something utterly amazing and fantastic can happen. <br /><br />I hold you both in my thoughts and heart. And although we are not close friends, I do hope that you know I will always be here to give you any support and help you may need through good and bad times. Please remember that!Katehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14391302362486143240noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19397583.post-75754058205186610582011-04-14T02:37:48.505+02:002011-04-14T02:37:48.505+02:00Holly (and Nathan), there are no words that one ca...Holly (and Nathan), there are no words that one can say that will make any of this better. You have been in my thoughts and prayers constantly over the last week or so. I am sorry that this road has to be so bumpy for you guys. I wish I could give you guys a big hug. I will continue to pray for you guys.Ty and Berhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02703850184455341809noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19397583.post-40579299234428577112011-04-14T02:23:17.877+02:002011-04-14T02:23:17.877+02:00I am so sorry. You don't know me, but I'v...I am so sorry. You don't know me, but I've been reading about your journey for awhile. Adoption is the hardest thing we've ever done, but it is worth it. Hang in there because your time is coming. I hope its sooner than later. HUGS! Shelbyhope2adoptbabyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02439733484916833465noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19397583.post-13491701675189837632011-04-14T02:16:55.383+02:002011-04-14T02:16:55.383+02:00Holly I am so sorry. You have been on my mind and ...Holly I am so sorry. You have been on my mind and heart all week. What you have had to endure is heartbreaking. You are such a wonderful, inspiring person and I pray one day your prayers will be answered and you can be a Mom at last!Karahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11790337646307451362noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19397583.post-23003407801572303252011-04-14T01:36:09.974+02:002011-04-14T01:36:09.974+02:00I can't help but feel the pain from this one. ...I can't help but feel the pain from this one. I just want to cry. I can feel the heartbreak all the way here. I want you to know that I am here if you ever need to talk. I know it feels better to talk to someone who some what understands, then to people who really don't. I don't fully understand how it has to be for you, but I will try. I am so sorry. Take some time for yourself, and just try to be happy. I know its not easy. Take a trip or something too. You deserve it!Kimberli Nortonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17332013475762486131noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19397583.post-62809050022425223192011-04-14T01:35:43.435+02:002011-04-14T01:35:43.435+02:00I know that there are no words that I can say that...I know that there are no words that I can say that will fill up the void left in your heart, but please know I've been thinking about you all week! My heart breaks for you. Know that you are in my prayers, and I love you two. Good luck.<br />-JesikaGardinerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14408686230229773924noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19397583.post-79358214977928900982011-04-14T00:14:45.610+02:002011-04-14T00:14:45.610+02:00I"m so sorry. love you guys. Hopefully things...I"m so sorry. love you guys. Hopefully things will be/get better soon. lots of hugs<br />KimAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19397583.post-18083813240240782522011-04-14T00:01:43.211+02:002011-04-14T00:01:43.211+02:00Holly, I have laid awake many nights thinking of y...Holly, I have laid awake many nights thinking of you this week. I can't imagine the pain and heartache you are enduring right now. I wish so desperately there was something i could do to make this journey easier for you. my heart breaks for you and nathan. all i know is the Lord doesn't tell us to pursue something just for the sake of feeling pain. there is light at the end of all this...i know that. i too am grateful that you having loving family and friends to lean on at this time.me and himhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17312614883252459830noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19397583.post-45488131535849032622011-04-13T23:28:30.953+02:002011-04-13T23:28:30.953+02:00I'm a lurker here. I don't think I've...I'm a lurker here. I don't think I've ever left a comment. But I just had to express my most sincere and heartfelt condolenses for your losses. I am just heartsick for you. I wish there was something I could do, or some magic words that could make it all better. I'll be praying for you.Nicolehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01928981780295933844noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19397583.post-22682848189982811932011-04-13T23:13:24.501+02:002011-04-13T23:13:24.501+02:00this just breaks my heart.this just breaks my heart.Kristenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07740769403631288211noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19397583.post-66724637957690180192011-04-13T23:10:00.579+02:002011-04-13T23:10:00.579+02:00My heart literally hurts for you. I will say that...My heart literally hurts for you. I will say that I've seen a lot of growth in you since I first started following your blog and adoption journey....the refiner's fire has produced something exceptionally beautiful and I pray for the day that a special someone(s) has the privilege of calling you "Mom".Jennhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08580894965839672492noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19397583.post-32985563003956389262011-04-13T23:06:36.066+02:002011-04-13T23:06:36.066+02:00I am so sorry for all you have gone through. It i...I am so sorry for all you have gone through. It is heartbreaking. You are both so incredibly strong. You will be amazing parents.Jenniferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00524262402589745501noreply@blogger.com